Zoe’ Chinaka: SEX IS A GIFT!!!

When i was 15, i got a huge recognition award for writing a poem titled ”Take me back”… i know what you are thinking pastor zoe lol’ anyways it was nothing really scriptural or bound to my belief, it was borne out of my young/old mind which got me ‘always rolling my eyes at the nonsense the world has embraced as philosophy and logic 103 lol …
Here’s a snippet (i’m currently developing it to feature:) as …

Take me back to the time when …
love was lovely…
sex was sexy…

men where gentle…
women were ladies…
justice was just…
marriage was sacred…
children where childish…
boys loved toys …
girls where …
well i ghast to stop dia 🙂

back to my gist…
Have you ever considered why a woman who sleeps around changes men as often as she does after a season? Or even men themselves who change women often but succeed in telling themselves that it’s because they are bored and need variety when if the truth be told they have just never searched within themselves long enough to find out exactly why they are as fickle as they decide they want to be. (sorry guys no offence meant but are you funny?!)
I am learning in my ‘old age’ to speak the truth and to practice it also because I want to be a person of integrity and show my children how to build character by example and not just by what I say. Well today’s truth for me is what I know most of us know but ignore for strange reasons like we think it’s not modern or it wouldn’t allow us the leeway to act out our impulses without restraint. For those who choose to live on that level please flip the page right now but for the ones who dare to travel this journey with me then let’s start with this: SEX IS A GIFT!!
Soul searching some say, is the first step to learning; so ask yourselves how many men you have been intimate with that you have felt compelled to have sex with? How many times sex has been demanded for payment for or in return of a service? How many times have you used sex as leverage to acquire wealth (jobs, contracts, gifts), manipulate a situation or person or even force someone to remain emotionally attached to you against their better judgement? Worse still (and the one we are often most guilty of); how many times has sex been used as a weapon to reward or punish our spouses or even to keep them from looking elsewhere for intimacy so much so that it loses it’s meaning and becomes mostly a functional act? Tough questions eh? Well if you found a yes or even a maybe in any of the questions then you stand with me in the discovery that WE have erred and short changed ourselves.

God made sex to be beautiful in it’s very essence as long as it remains as he created it …A GIFT. It is not just the merging of two bodies in hurried ecstasy but a merging of two souls that reminds us that our spirits are one with God and one with each other as long as we experience it His way. Sex is the only gift that is a seed whereby it can produce the precious gift of life (children) and was made both for our pleasure and for God’s pleasure of creation at the same time. Sex is what can add to a woman’s (or man’s) wholeness and can keep you ‘bound’ to another person in emotional intimacy or can cause you to lose yourself and the ability to be one with anyone if used in any of the ways that we described earlier. So I urge you in this season of giving to join with me as I gracefully acknowledge that to err may be human and though I may have given it or used it inappropriately in the past, my desire is to experience afresh God’s gift of oneness with Him (and him) as we share a gift so beautiful.

RESPECT THIS AND WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE, SIMPLY JUST TO HONOR YOUR CREATOR, but also sow a seed for your kids (male and female)… and might i add ”even if you’ve had sex before ehn show your creator and self some respect and become a celestial virgin (not everyone made it whole before reading this i know)…